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Maybe it won't be a big deal. About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me. On her mind, her eternal salvation depends on marrying a worthy priesthood holder. Then you might want to talk about all the things her church requires. When I expressed how upset and sad I was he told me simply that he works hard and that is how he wants to spend his money and what he plans to do. It is how she is programmed and it is a fundamental tenant of the religion. There are many great and wonderful people in the church, and the real evil about the church is that it harms those great and wonderful people. I went back to school and received a Master's degree from a prestigious university Driving more than an hour each way 6 days a week to so; doing several excavation seasons and tons of research in order to achieve a cherished goal that had been denied me as a young woman. She didn't tell anyone because her own lack self worth and shame petrified her to do anything about it.
That being said, there are some facets of the religion that you should be aware of that will influence how she approaches both you and the relationship. A few years ago I ended up in a wheelchair. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. When my daughter needs challenged in soccer, I took her everywhere, I studied vocabulary list with them, wrote essay with them, math facts……. But our marriage is strong, and our children are good people.
Although we're young, we've talked about marriage and the realities of everything. I feel like I am under the microscope. I don't mind staying home because I understand he's tired. Yes you are all correct it's lonely and rewarding at the same time But we can continue to make it work. First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me. I also definitely don't want her raising my future children, though, and I'll be very clear about that. And even when they are home with you Expectations of time together is a mirage. The church will be in your bedroom, finances, and all your decisions. Thanks so much for the links. Is the answer really just communication and uninterrupted alone time.
