So, I'm sitting in my friend's West London living room, well into the bottle of cheap pinot grigio I dug out of her fridge, and already through with the couple of lines I had forgotten in my bag from an unnecessarily late night two weeks ago, and I'm supposed to write about why some people enjoy shoving a stick of meat up their poomaker. The truth is, I have no fucking idea. After you finish this article, read her counterpoint , which dives into the joys of sticking things up your butt. And you begin to consider it.
2. It’s Not Pleasant For Everyone
1. Anal Sex Feels Close
I was in high school when Sex and the City premiered, and like many women of my generation and the generations that followed, that show taught me a lot about sex. I knew that gay men engaged in it, but I held on to some pretty old-school notions when it came to why straight women would do it. Whoever heard of Mrs. Up-the-Butt might reside. The experience was, for lack of a better word, awful. But on top of the physical discomfort, I also felt ashamed. It was humiliating that this was what he wanted and humiliating that I consented. What did this say about me? What other so-called deviant things would I consent to in the name of love? But then something happened in my early thirties.
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I f you do it with the one you love and do it right, it can be fun. However, I have recently read a blog on here that a lady posted called Anal Sex- Steps to Making this Enjoyable… I have to give kudos to her, because she listed some great reasons in my book. However, this is not the first time I have researched the subject. When I was reading the comments to the blog I previously told you about, I found many reasons as to why they say no to anal sex. It hurts Do you know how many posts I have seen where women say it hurts? This seems to be the top reason as to why women are saying no to anal sex.