Its the days when I don't get a text that I worry I feel terrible now for ever doubting him. Unfortunately I've been sort of seeing a girl who is basically a real deal Mormon. Earlier I mentioned "Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. My mom always said the more you have, the more it owns you, so true. I dated non mormon men. I was convinced that if I didn't move to be with him we would never have a shot at a real relationship because his training would take so long - residency. If you do end up having sexual relations, she will feel guilty, and it will affect your relationship, you can count on that.
Eternity is a long time. It's up to you to decide whether or not this is someone worth waiting for. I've seen it happen all the time. Maybe you will win. It may change your relationship to them forever. Will he possible convert just to make you happy without really buying into it.
Break it off amicably now, before it gets too difficult. Get helpful advice on your cases from a community of physicians. What are the strategies for not taking the absence personally I mentioned above that I'm cognizant of my SO's constraints, but it's definitely hard I have been married to an Interventional Radiologist 30 yrs. It gets better towards the later part of the whole deal, but it's always going to be kind of crazy busy. I know a guy who had a hobby of corrupting Mormon girls he was abused by his TBM parentsand I'm told you're both right. After a lot of thought during that relationship with a non-Mormon, I laid out exactly what struggles I was probably going to face: I was worried about my own faith. And he likes the idea of us raising our daughter with the values the Mormon church instills on their youth. No complaints whatsoever though GF or BF and spouses of physicians quickly understand that medicine isn't a profession Many times you will be second.
You have been blessed with the equipment to make such decisions. There is a difference between "I wouldn't want to be with someone who worked these hours forever" and "I am really unhappy and will be unhappy for the next three years. And you must be honest in your conversation with God about it. And even then it will put Huge stress on it and on you for the rest of your life. I'd suggest the essays. In my experience, life-long member, many Mormons have difficulty thinking outside the box, and putting forth effort to inclue and love. The first vision is something she taught endlessly as a missionary - same with the Book of Mormon translation.
