She probably has not studied the real truths behind Mormonism and thinks her beliefs are the only way to become a God while living eternally with family in the life hereafter. And even then it will put Huge stress on it and on you for the rest of your life. You are commenting using your Facebook account. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship.
And generally those people seem to have great difficulty in breaking off the relationship, even though they are told that it is a dead-end situation that will cause them big trouble in the future. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. My faith, while less orthodox, has certainly matured. You're walking into a den of crazy, tbm bishop's daughter, I hate to say it but you should really be contemplative about what you're stepping into. The important thing is doing it together. I believe that there will be a lot more mercy than justice being dished out at the judgment. Life After Mormonism Chat. But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs. If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them.
I have felt alone many a days when raising our 2 children while he was at work or out of town for conferences. That deal with polygamy explained. These insane hours are wearing on me and I fear what has happened to so many I know will start to happen to us. If you try to deconvert her I suggest indirectly at first. All I can do is Trust in God. But I believe, doctor or not, a relationship is all about supporting one another and making sacrifices. It seems like mormons in particular are even more crazy than the majority of crazy religious people, and the manipulation and treatment of people who wish to think for themselves and challenge their beliefs is really frightening. You could even pass it off as you investigating the church and you stumnled accross these essays on lds. My wife told me she does not want to know if the church is false, so I don't pressure her.
I feel like the person who is giving our relationship strength, and the one who will keep our family going in the right direction in the future, as well. Because she will think that all of a sudden she is going to hell for being human, that's mormon sexual repression. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead. Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion. The standard principles of day game apply. Don't get her hopes up too much - in return ask her to do something to research your views.
