It is much easier for the Holy Ghost to influence good people. There is a lot about Mormonism I am still struggling to understand, but I am reading faith-based memoirs and studying up on Mormonism as well as other religions but the relevance here is on Mormonism. You've stated that she had numerous guys break up with her after she took sex off the table. Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. Where do you find Mormon girls. A forum for ex-mormons and others who have been affected by mormonism to share news, commentary, and comedy about the Mormon church.
Do you drink alcohol. There is a difference between commitment and time together. Expect her to either write you off during her mission or pressure you to show interest in the church. Good luck and best wishes as you head back out into the dating pool. If she is motivated enough to want to go on a mission, she will likely not settle for having a second class "eternal companion" you who is a convert or one who cannot be sealed to her for eternity. As someone starting residency next year and whose father and brother went through it, and whose girlfriend is about to start it I have to say that you can't be mad at him for not sacrificing something to spend time with you - there is literally nothing else to sacrifice; residency is called residency because the doctors used to live in the hospitals, and it was akin to monks in monastery.
You will always be 2nd. It's typical to not hear from him for weeks. A lot of advice I get from others is that you need to build up hobbies and activities of your own so that I am not just waiting for him to give attention and have time for me. I do nearly all of the parenting fortunately we only have one child -- we both agree that this lifestyle is too demanding for more and find that my husband's crazy hours and the energy drain of the job make me yearn to connect with other wives that relate. And most of those end up with both people losing their faith or a divorce.
I remember one time I did just that with a group of friends and someone saying, "Oh you have it so rough. Her experience may or may not be typical, but it is something to consider. Love is a relation where compromise sacrifices and understanding matters a lot. Lots of really thorough replies. And, for anyone "dating" a married doctor. I have been with him through medical school and residency for internal medicine, which was tough, but manageable. If your relationship is moving forward, or she suggests doing something more expensive, it is not inappropriate for her to help pay as well. MinsPackage speaks the truth. If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. I can pray for and with my youngest daughter and bless her thru prayer.