That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here. No drama-inducing crossposting of content found in other subreddits, or vice versa. Some Mormons believe the Telestial Kingdom will be littered with spouses who refused to get baptized. It is tempting for Mormon girls to become lazy because they have such a high standard compared to typical girls.
Sounds like classic "flirt to convert. Things have worked out pretty well with us so far. The church will be in your bedroom, finances, and all your decisions. My loneliness is something that I try to manage with an antidepresants and cognitive therapy.
Just go ahead and ask for the definitions and treat it like learning a new language. Cousin the same age who just got married has known her husband 6 months. I'm sorry this was so longwinded and not really an answer to your questions. As such, it tends to attract the young and insecure. Meaning that unless you are willing to become Mormon And your savings account. I am dating a wonderful man, amazing. She won't look at anything "anti-mormon" but if it's on LDS.
Ask her if her parents buy their underwear from a bookstore. I know people should not get married if they can't accept each other as they are. I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives.